I’m 17, girl and have had sex once. I mastubate all the time, every night and sometimes in the afternoon, and watch porn every time. I even watch it sometimes when I don’t. And I always get pissy when I don’t get my little “alone time”. Is there something wrong with me? Do I have a porn addiction? Please help!
Haha no. You just need to get laid again! 
Just kidding. Watching porn is a natural curiosity..but getting irritated because you went a day without watching it is kinda weird.
I havent watched porn or masturbated in almost 2 months….masturbation was affecting my real sex drive so I stopped. Do you think I will be able to have a real sex life now that I stopped becasue I only can get it up from oral sex
yes,throw away all the porn do some walking instead, fresh air you need, your cock comes 2 nd now
I tried getting new hobbies, making new friends, traveling etc. None worked. What do you suggest?
I dont want to be discouraging, but you have tangled with a monster. Porn can be tougher to kick than heroin or cocaine. You are addicted to your own brain chemicals, the “pleasure chemicals” that are released when you look at porn. You have established very strong neural pathways in your brain that are almost impossible to reroute. Overcoming porn will take a very concerted effort over a long period of time with a lot of help. I recommend a book called Don’t Call It Love by Patrick Carnes. He is the top expert in this area. It will help you understand what you are up against. There are organizations such as Sex Addicts Anonymous. Google them, contact them. See a counselor. Join a support group. Tell your wife and ask her to help you. She might kick you out (mine did me) but you have to learn to face the music, no matter the consequences. if you are a religious person, get involved in your religion, church or whatever. There are a lot of resources out there and you will need them. Check out Celebrate Recovery at various churches all over the country. Good luck buddy. You are gonna need it.
It makes me feel sick and stupid after I’m done watching it. And then I start to think of how much a sin it is. I’ve lost my appetite, and I feel so AKWARD around my family afterwards! How can I stop without having to stop using the computer? I REALLY need help. PLZ TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO. And my parents are the LAST people I would want to talk to.
When Im on birth control pills I lose all my sex drive nothing can turn me on, even porn. You might want to try that. Or try to keep yourself busy when you’re on the computer, like chat with your friends so that you could take your mind away from porn. Put a picture of your family near your computer monitor or a picture of Jesus (if your a Christian) or any picture that would deter you from thinking of porn.
Block the porn websites you frequently visit using a porn filter http://www.download.com/NetDog-Internet-Porn-Filter/3000-2162_4-10454719.html .
Use Firefox as your browser and install the Firefox add-on Ad Block Plus. Ad Block Plus will block the porn ads (actually almost all ads, even the annoying text ads ads) you will see on sites so you wouldn’t be tempted to click on them.
I have been watching porn the past 28 days…….i need help
Well if you really have been watching it this long you will have realised how boring it is. It is about the worst kind of sex there is, devoid of real emotion or feeling, just a mechanical act. Sure it can be fascinating for a short while, but watch it for as long as you like, it will never give you the thing you are looking for. Instead switch off and go out and meet some real people. Just don’t try any of the sex techniques you have seen on the films, at best you can expect a good slap round the face!
im 15 and would like another christian male around that age, to talk to on facebook everyday for it.
BTW: im a student leader in LHGH and someone from that would be even better
American Christian cultures are far too obsessed with sex. There’s nothing wrong with porn.
There are more verses in the Bible about silly things like women not being allowed to speak in church, and stoning people who work on the Sabbath than there are relating to masturbation.
In fact, it doesn’t even directly address the issue. The closest it comes is to say that you shouldn’t look at women with ‘lust in your heart’, but that’s wide open to interpretation. I think you should interpret that one loosely to say don’t just reduce women to pieces of meat. You have to respect them, even though you find them attractive.
Don’t drive yourself crazy with guilt over something so pointless.
Would you be supportive and do all you can or let him figure it out on his own? Would you even care? Would you feel respected if he overcame it out of his love for you?
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I’ll make this short & sweet: I have an addiction to porn & I need help for it. It doesn’t affect my daily life, but I can’t stop looking at it. Plus, I’d like to get a girlfriend, but I doubt I’ll find a girl who’s ok with my addiction. Please help me! Could I check into a rehab & get help for this, the way that alcoholics & drug addicts do?
cyber sexual hyperactivity.
^^ that’s the name of it btw
you can tell a therapist or a counselor
I’m addicted to porn. That’s pretty much it. This includes watching naked women and men. I like seeing pictures of people having sex and I love watching the videos. It’s completely wrong and I hate when I do it. It’s separating me from GOD and I am a christian but this is my toughest obstacle. How can I overcome my porn addiction. I need serious answers. If I have the opportunity to watch porn. I will. No matter what. What can I do?
I’m 18 and a virgin if that counts…
Pray and ask JESUS to break it. Admit to Him that you cannot stop, and that HE needs to do that in you. Ask Him also to fill you with His Holy Spirit, to overpower the desires of the flesh.
And know that Jesus is for you! Believe in JESUS for His free gift of eternal life in heaven, and you are forgiven all sins, no matter what those sins are, all sins past, present, and future, and you will be in heaven no matter what, and never in hell!
Jesus died on the cross for our sins, as FULL PAYMENT for ALL our sins! And then Jesus rose from the dead! Believe in JESUS for salvation, and you will be in heaven!
Jesus is God, and Jesus loves you so very much! 
And the Trinity is true!
The truth about Jesus is that the only way to be saved and to get into heaven and avoid being sent to hell, is by believing in JESUS for His free gift of eternal life in heaven, believing in faith alone that Jesus, who is God, died on the cross for all our sins as FULL PAYMENT for all our sins, and then Jesus rose from the dead (1 Corinthians 15:1-4). Believe in Jesus for His free gift of salvation, and you will be in heaven, no matter what!
Salvation is a FREE GIFT that happens in a split second when you believe in JESUS for His free gift of salvation! It is impossible to lose or “leave” salvation (John 6:39-40, John 10:28, 1 John 5:13).
Please pray now: “Jesus, I believe that You died on the cross to pay for my sins and that You rose from the dead, and I thank You for eternal life!” You will be in heaven with Him forever when you die!
I recently walked in on my 11 year old son, and he was in a masturbations frenzy, i had to shake him to snap him out of the trance. There were at least two pornographic magazines next to him.
I’m afraid that he will turn into a sex addict/offender in the future.
How can I cure him? should I send him to sunday school or make him take part in competitive sports or will that aggregative his addiction even further?
PLEASE HELP!
He’s not going to turn into a sex offender per se. Watching porn has nothing to do with sex crimes unless the nature of the porn is of a sexually criminal nature (eg. child porn etc…) Also, no, don’t send him to sunday school BECAUSE he watched porn because that’ll send him the wrong message. You should talk to him about it and teach him that women are people just like him and are portrayed wrongly in pornography. Tell him that God said in the bible it is a sin to commit adultery and to look at a woman sinfully is adultery in the heart. Then take the magazines away. Now afterwards, you should get him to play a sport since the social nature of it will help him to not think of pornographic things when he’s all alone in his room. Also you should send him to Sunday school to learn the teachings of God and if he asks if it was because of the pornography tell him no and say that God would like to teach you and speak with you about Jesus and salvation.